Is Someone You Care About Being Wooed By Mormons?

Copyright © 2007 Institute for Religious Research
Online Support Group for Families Concerned About Mormonism

If you are concerned for someone close to you, such as a family member, friend, co-worker, or neighbor who has joined the Mormon Church, or is being wooed by the Mormons, then you may want to consider joining our online support group called CAM-talk (Concerned About Mormonism). Members of CAM-talk share their own experiences, strengths, and hopes with each other. You will meet others who will likely share your feelings and frustrations toward the Mormon Church and hopefully learn how to constructively deal with the concerns you have with Mormonism. Many CAM-talk members have found the forum to be relevant, constructive, and beneficial.

To join CAM-talk, go to the following webpage: http://www.irr.org/mit/cam-talk/default.html and follow the instructions that appear.

“Do commit yourself to a biblical philosophy of ministry that treats people caught in the web of spiritual deception with respect and compassion.”


Some DOs and DON'Ts


(1) Do be persistent in praying for those who are being wooed by the Mormons (Luke 18:1-8; Rom. 12:12). Don't just pray by yourself, find a couple of Christian friends who are serious about prayer and their relationship to Christ and ask them to pray with you for your loved one. Jesus said, “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” (Matt. 18:20).

(2) Do treat people caught in the web of spiritual deception with respect and compassion. Treat them the way you would like to be treated. Get to know them on a personal level. Take the apostle Paul’s counsel to Timothy as a guiding Scriptural basis for your ministry approach: 24And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. 25Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth." (2 Tim. 2:24-25)

(3) Do make a sincere effort to understand Mormonism. If you don’t have an accurate understanding of Mormonism, then you give your Mormon friend(s) a reason to not take your criticism of Mormonism seriously. We recommend the following books, DVDs, and online articles:

(4) Do try to stay focused on having an in-depth discussion on only one topic at a time. If you skip from one topic to another, you are not as likely to communicate effectively and may end up producing more heat than light.

(5) Do not allow the person to misquote or misinterpret the Bible without calling attention to it. If they quote a Bible verse to support a Mormon teaching, open a Bible and ask them to read the verse and its immediate context aloud and explain to you how it supports their belief. If the passage does not support the Mormon teaching, then ask them to slowly and carefully reread the passage. Hopefully, they will discover for themselves that the passage does not support Mormon teachings.